Just Get This One Thing Right

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Purpose is something many people feel is elusive, but in reality, finding it is simple once you understand the key. Today, I’m going to show you how you can find purpose by getting just one thing right: caring.

Why should you care about this? Because purpose gives your life direction. It brings fulfilment, strengthens relationships, and gives meaning to everything you do. When you live with purpose, you wake up every day with a sense of direction, knowing that your actions matter not just for yourself, but for those around you.

Unfortunately, most people miss out on purpose. They chase big dreams or think it’s something distant and hard to achieve.

The Primary Reason: We Overcomplicate It

Here are a few reasons why so many people struggle to find purpose:

• They think it’s a grand achievement. They assume purpose is tied to a career milestone or some monumental accomplishment.
• They don’t prioritize self-care. You can’t care for others if you don’t first take care of yourself.
• They forget about community. We often neglect the power of contributing to something greater than ourselves.
• They get lost in the noise. Modern life pulls us in so many directions that it’s easy to lose focus on what truly matters.
• They expect immediate results. Purpose is a journey, not an overnight achievement.

But don’t worry—I’m here to show you how you can overcome these challenges and bring purpose into your life starting today.

Step 1: Focus on Self-Care

This is where purpose starts. It’s crucial because you can’t pour from an empty cup. When you take care of your physical, mental, and emotional well-being, you build the foundation for everything else.

An example? Think about those mornings where you feel energized and ready to tackle the day. That’s self-care at work—giving you the strength to make meaningful connections and pursue your goals. For me this starts with a workout, cold shower, and a coffee... Whats it to you?

Step 2: Care for the People Around You

Many go wrong here by thinking that caring for others means grand gestures or sacrifices. It doesn’t. It’s in the small, consistent acts—listening, offering help, and being present.

Too many think, “I’ll give when I have more time or money.” But purpose comes from caring in the little moments. Make time for conversations, lend a hand, or simply show someone you’re thinking of them. Its simply just showing up.

Step 3: Contribute to Your Community

The light at the end of the tunnel is realizing that purpose isn’t just about you. It grows when you extend your care beyond your immediate circle to your community. By giving back or participating in something bigger, you unlock a deeper sense of fulfilment.

Think about the joy that comes from volunteering or helping someone in need. That’s the reward—knowing you’ve made a difference. To some, this could be going into politics, organising a charity event, or minding that old lady at the crosswalks. I recently started coaching to help my home rugby club out and give back to the rugby community.

In Conclusion:

To find purpose in life:

1. Start with self-care.
2. Care for those around you in small, meaningful ways.
3. Contribute to your community.

Remember, purpose isn’t hard to find—it starts with care. And by taking these simple steps, you’ll find that sense of meaning you’ve been searching for.

Arko Hoondert ​Find me on X, LinkedIn, Instagram, or Book a 1:1 Call​

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